Whether you're dating, in a relationship, or somewhere in between, relationships can feel confusing, triggering, and emotionally exhausting. You might find yourself repeating patterns—like chasing people who aren't emotionally available, shutting down when things get too close, or struggling to express your needs without guilt or fear.
Communication feels harder than it should. You may second-guess yourself, feel anxious when things go “too well,” or withdraw when conflict arises. Maybe you’re constantly wondering, Is this my trauma talking—or is something real happening here?
It can feel like no matter how hard you try, relationships just don’t feel safe, mutual, or steady. And you’re tired of not knowing how to fix it.