Mattie Chein LCSW

Private pay · August 22, 2026

What is a superbill?

A superbill is an itemized receipt for therapy you have already paid for, written up with the codes and provider details an insurance company needs in order to consider paying you back. Out-of-network reimbursement is what happens after that: you send the superbill to your own insurance company, they apply whatever out-of-network benefits your plan has, and if your plan covers any of it, the money comes back to you rather than to the therapist.

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That is the whole shape of it. The part people find confusing is that it runs backwards from what they are used to. There is no copay at the door and no claim filed on your behalf. You pay for the session, you get a document, and you decide whether to submit it.

What an out of network therapist actually is

Insurance companies keep a list of clinicians who have signed a contract with them. Those clinicians are "in network", and the plan pays them directly at a contracted rate. A clinician who has not signed that contract is out-of-network, usually shortened to OON.

Being out-of-network is not a quality signal in either direction. It is a contracting decision. Some clinicians stay out-of-network so that session length, session frequency, and what gets written into a record stay a clinical conversation between two people rather than something a third party signs off on.

I do not accept insurance. I can provide a superbill you may submit to your insurer for possible reimbursement as an out-of-network provider. Whether your plan pays anything back is between you and your insurance company, and it is worth checking before you start rather than after.

What is on a superbill

A superbill is more detailed than a plain payment receipt. A plain receipt usually is not enough on its own; a superbill carries the details an insurer looks for. It generally includes:

  • Your name and date of birth, since the claim has to attach to you as the member.
  • The date of each session and how long it ran.
  • A service code, called a CPT code (Current Procedural Terminology, the standard code set used to describe a clinical service). This is what tells the insurer what kind of appointment took place.
  • A diagnosis code, which is the clinical reason the service was provided.
  • The amount you paid, and confirmation that you paid it.
  • The clinician's license details, practice address, tax identification, and NPI (National Provider Identifier, the standard identification number for a health care provider in the United States).

One item on that list deserves a flag. Submitting a superbill usually means a diagnosis code is attached, because insurers generally reimburse for the treatment of a diagnosed condition. That means information about you enters your insurance record. Some people are entirely comfortable with that. Some people in regulated professions weigh that carefully, and choose not to submit at all. It is a real decision and worth making deliberately.

How the reimbursement process usually works

  1. Ask your plan first. Call the member services number on your insurance card and ask whether your plan has OON outpatient mental health benefits, whether you need any authorization before starting, and where superbills should be sent. Write down who you spoke to.
  2. Pay for sessions as you go. Nothing about the reimbursement process changes how the sessions themselves run.
  3. Get the superbill. Your therapist provides the superbill; ask how and how often at the start.
  4. Submit it. Plans commonly accept out-of-network claims through a member portal, a mobile app, or a claim form you mail or upload. The form is usually the same one used for any out-of-network medical claim.
  5. Read what comes back. After a claim is processed, plans send an EOB (Explanation of Benefits), which is a statement, not a bill. It shows what was claimed, what the plan counted, and what it paid.
  6. Follow up if something looks wrong. Claims get rejected for small reasons, like a missing field or the wrong form. A rejection is not always a no.

What decides whether you actually get anything back

This is where honest guidance stops and your specific plan takes over. A few things tend to matter, and none of them can be predicted from the outside:

  • Whether your plan has out-of-network benefits at all. Some do, some do not. This is the first question, not the last one.
  • Your out-of-network deductible. A deductible is the amount a plan requires you to spend yourself before it starts paying its share, and out-of-network deductibles are tracked separately from in-network ones on many plans.
  • What the plan considers a reasonable charge for the service. Plans reimburse against their own internal figure, not automatically against what you paid.
  • Coinsurance, meaning the share of a covered service you pay yourself once the deductible is met.

Your insurer is the only reliable source for your own numbers, and asking them is a phone call.

A note on knowing the cost up front

Federal rules that took effect in 2022 require a provider to give an uninsured or self-pay individual a good faith estimate of expected charges once a service is scheduled, and also on request [CMS, "No Surprises: What's a good faith estimate?"]. For this purpose you count as self-pay even if you have insurance, as long as you are not asking the provider to bill your plan, which is the usual situation in an out-of-network therapy practice. In plain terms: you can ask any provider for a Good Faith Estimate before you start, so what you are committing to is in writing.

What to do this week

  • Find your insurance card and call member services. Ask the three questions in step 1 above.
  • Ask whether they accept superbills submitted by the member, and how.
  • Decide separately, before any of the money questions, whether you are comfortable with a diagnosis being part of an insurance claim.

When to ask rather than keep reading

If the admin side is the thing standing between you and starting, it is a reasonable thing to raise directly instead of researching further. You can see how I work on Work with me, the short version of the insurance answer sits on FAQs, and practical questions can go through Contact.

If you want to talk it through with no obligation, the free 15-minute consult is a short video call with me, for adults in California and New York, to say what is going on and ask the practical questions before you decide anything.

Common questions

Do I need to submit the superbill myself?

Yes. With an out-of-network therapist, you pay for the session and then submit the superbill to your insurance company yourself, usually through a member portal or a claim form. I do not accept insurance, so the superbill is a receipt you submit rather than a claim filed for you.

Does my insurance have to pay?

No. A superbill is a document that lets you make a claim; it is not a promise that the claim will be paid. Whether anything comes back depends on your particular plan’s out-of-network benefits, and the only way to know is to ask your insurer before you start.

Is a private pay therapist the same as an out-of-network therapist?

They usually describe the same arrangement from two directions. Private pay describes how the session is paid for, directly by you rather than through a plan. Out-of-network describes the clinician’s relationship with insurers, meaning no contract with your plan, which is how I work.

What if I have an HSA or FSA (health savings or flexible spending account)?

Many people use one of these accounts for therapy. What counts as an eligible expense is set by IRS rules and by your plan administrator, not by your therapist, so ask your administrator what your account covers and what documentation it wants. For anything tax-related, speak to a tax professional. Nothing here is tax advice.

Will a superbill show up in my insurance records?

If you submit it, yes: the claim and its diagnosis code become part of your record with that insurer. If you choose not to submit it, no claim exists. Deciding not to submit is a legitimate choice rather than a lost opportunity, and it is worth thinking through before you start rather than after.

Why do some therapists not take insurance at all?

Reasons vary by clinician, and it is fair to ask any therapist directly what theirs are. Commonly cited ones include keeping decisions about session length and frequency clinical rather than contractual, and limiting how much information about a client’s care is shared with a third party.

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Sources

  • Centers for Medicare & Medicaid Services, “No Surprises: What’s a good faith estimate?” Providers must give an uninsured or self-pay individual a good faith estimate of expected charges once a service is scheduled, or on request; the requirement took effect 1 January 2022. Read it

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